For so Long I would always worry about where I was versus where everyone around me was. That train of thought literally drains you of the motivation, willpower and love. You have to get to your own destination. You can admire people but don’t get caught up in them. Get caught up in your own goals and your own heart. Be gentle with yourself. You’re trying. If it’s taking you longer than you thought to achieve something or get somewhere. That’s okay! Try not to compare yourself to others and what they’re doing. Things will happen for you at the right time. Be patient. You’ll get there soon.